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I’m not sure what to say. While we covered some really important material last night (your Husband Picker exercise!), the thing that stood out the most about our last Inner Circle call was this:

You loved Love U.

I have never before experienced such a sincere outpouring of praise and emotional generosity – and I am touched by how much this program has meant to you.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

If you have not listened to these weekly coaching sessions, do yourself a favor: click the link below and block out two hours, take notes and bring a box of tissues. It’s so rare to have a purely authentic moment with no pretense – just a sincere expression of love.

I’m so grateful to have led you through this course and I sincerely hope that you continue with me and Love U as long as it keeps you strong, connected and motivated.



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Breaking Up

11/19/2015

Thank you so much for joining me on last night’s Inner Circle call.

Although the topic was Breaking Up and this was our second-to-last coaching session, I sincerely hope that this is not the end of our relationship. If our long, interesting dialogue was any indication, I feel like this is exactly where things begin to take off for you.

See, one of the tricky things about self-help is that no matter how much you grow, the world around you doesn’t change. Match is still Match, men are still men, and so on. That’s why I feel so strongly about surrounding myself by other people who get it and challenge me to become a better coach. That’s what happens whenever we’re on the phone, and I want to thank you for that.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to last night’s thought-provoking take on Breaking Up.

Now enjoy your weekend and take the time to appreciate what you’ve accomplished so far.

You deserve it!



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Commitment

11/12/2015

Well, that was lovely! By talking about Commitment – the kind of commitment that leads to marriage – we opened up the doors to all sorts of interesting insights. The most interesting one was how many women in Love U aren’t sold on committing to the men in their lives – a wonderful observation that should help you understand and be more sympathetic to men in the exact same situation.

People aren’t “bad” for not knowing if they want to lock in one person for life; they’re actually pretty prudent and often want to get more clarity. Which is why Love U has two valuable pieces of advice:

1. Choosing a boyfriend is DIFFERENT than choosing a husband. Don’t panic about being exclusive with one guy. You have two years to figure out if you’re truly compatible.

2. You’re not always going to know if a guy is right for you, but you will know if a guy is wrong for you. Husbands don’t come gift wrapped with a bow on their heads. They are built with consistent good treatment and the feeling of joy and comfort over time.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to this week’s call on Commitment.

And tomorrow, you’re going to get access to the videos on Breaking Up – a skill that’s very valuable if you don’t want to waste years on the wrong men.


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Being a Great Girlfriend

11/05/2015

Thanks so much for your participation in last night’s Love U Inner Circle call on Being a Great Girlfriend.

This is a very special topic for me – one that was finely honed by 300 dates over 10 years, not to mention my 7 year marriage. Which is why I probably went off-book a little more than I usually do on these calls, and told some personal stories from the inside of my marriage about what it means to have healthy boundaries and understanding but firm communication skills.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Anyway, this is a coaching session you don’t want to miss, so please below here to listen to the full 90 minutes.

And stay tuned for the Love U Commitment videos. I’m confident that you’re going to learn a few things about marriage that will forever change the way you see the institution – for the better.



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Compatibility

10/29/2015

Well, THAT was a fun marathon of a call. What I heard last night was different than anything I’ve heard so far. 

What I heard was a community of women who really GET it.

Women who were being feminine. Women who were being trusting. Women who were being generous. Women who were accepting and appreciating their boyfriend. Women who have boyfriends who are astounded by how well they’re treated.

THIS is the call I was waiting for – and I’m so happy that so many of you are having big breakthroughs as we head into the final month of Love U.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to Compatibility.

If you don’t have a boyfriend, don’t worry: you are absorbing all this information at the same pace, and when you meet a great guy, I can assure you, that he will feel like the luckiest man on the planet.

All of this is the perfect lead-in to next week’s videos on Being a Great Girlfriend, so be sure to log in this weekend and write down which videos had the greatest impact on you.



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Jealousy and Cheating

10/22/2015

Thanks, as always, for your attendance and participation in last night’s Inner Circle call about Jealousy and Cheating. I thought it was particularly valuable when a handful of women who had cheated on their husbands shared their story, providing some nuance and humanity to the “why people cheat” story, which can easily be turned into a black and white issue.

There were some great questions as well, and I hope I answered them as transparently as I could. Furthermore, I hope I illustrated to you why the “full trust/full acceptance” model that my wife and I employ is the one that is the least likely to lead to relationship tension or lying down the road. It’s not always easy to get there, but it does have great rewards if you do.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the call in its entirety, and stay tuned the upcoming videos on Compatibility. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts.



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Should I Stay Or Go?

10/15/2015

Great positive reaction to last night’s call! I enjoyed the subtleties of your questions and hope that I gave you greater clarity about when you should stay and when you should exit a relationship. I don’t take breaking up lightly, but I find it to be a far superior solution than trying to force your foot in the proverbial shoe, even when it’s obvious that it doesn’t fit.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to Should I Stay or Go.

And don’t forget to tune in for next week’s call on Jealousy and Cheating, which I’m confident will give you something to think about before our next Inner Circle session.



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How to Talk with Men

10/08/2015

As always, I appreciate you bringing your A-Game to each week’s Inner Circle Call. Tonight’s session on How to Talk with Men is a favorite subject of mine – and a particularly sensitive and rich topic as well. You can see how this dynamic played out on the phone and in the Community, and why it’s essential to approach all communication as problem solving instead of finger pointing.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full call on How to Talk with Men.

And don’t forget to join me next week for an in-your-face look at “Should I Stay or Go?” These are the most critical questions you face in a relationship and I’m giving you a simple paradigm to evaluate if your boyfriend makes the cut.



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Chemistry

10/01/2015

Thank you so much for your participation in last night’s Inner Circle call on Chemistry. As predicted, there were a LOT of questions and (hopefully) some thoughtful, nuanced answers about how to create a long-lasting partnership that has a healthy measure of chemistry AND compatibility.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Listen to the magic here and stay tuned for next week’s videos where I teach you how to make men listen to you, respect you, and do what you want.



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Understanding Men

09/24/2015

What a wonderful call! This is – not surprisingly – one of my favorite topics, because, as the only man in Love U, I hope I can wield a little extra authority on the subject. But really, what I enjoyed was your participation. Lots of juicy questions explaining how men do what they want and why it’s important to sit back and observe their behavior and attempt to understand them, instead of judging.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full Inner Circle call on Understanding Men.

And stay tuned for my email tomorrow, giving you access to the all-important Love U unit on Chemistry. Really interesting stuff.

As always, I love you and appreciate you and can’t wait to hear your aha moments in the Community.



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Alpha Males VS. Beta Males

09/17/2015

Juicy call, y’all. There were a lot of questions tonight about how to apply this Alpha/Beta knowledge to your love life and my answer was consistent: you will figure out compatibility when you’re in an easy relationship. These ideas and tests are supposed to be data points and guidelines for you as you navigate the dating landscape, not be-all, end-all answers to the life long test known as “Where is my husband?”

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Make sure you do this week’s Alpha/Beta exercise and then listen to tonight’s call below.

You’re now ready for the most challenging week yet: Understanding Men, coming at you first thing on Saturday morning.

Can’t wait to see you again next Thursday night.



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Masculine & Feminine Energy

09/10/2015

Dare I say that last night’s Inner Circle call was the best one yet?

From the positive energy in the room, it sure felt like it from here. We had some really interesting conversation surrounding masculine and feminine energy, most of which settled upon finding a relationship that feels good. In other words, yes, you have to compromise a little bit, but, for the most part, you shouldn’t have to think too much about your own energy when you’re with the right partner.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to take a listen and thanks again for contributing to some of the most thoughtful coaching dialogue I’ve ever been a part of. It’s a joy to be your host on this journey.



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Boyfriend Material

09/03/2015

Thanks for joining me on last night’s Inner Circle call. We had great turnout and participation, and I was particularly delighted how many common themes were echoed. Three women shared how they had boyfriends that they wouldn’t have chosen before joining Love U, which is a testament to their ability to absorb the material and apply it in real life. Note that none of these women feel they “settled” in any way, shape or form. They merely compromised their way into happiness.

Moderation was another recurring theme – not seeing things in terms of black and white. It’s a guiding principle of Love U, one which will serve you well as you assess whether the guy you’re seeing is truly boyfriend-worthy, and, later, husband-worthy.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to take a listen to the call.

And stay tuned for next week’s juicy content on Masculine and Feminine Energy.



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Becoming Exclusive

08/27/2015

Congratulations! Just like that, you have completed the first three months of Love U and are pretty much certified dating expert! And if last night’s call is any indication, your Love U mojo is working wonders. I heard a bunch of stories of confident women who are grappling with whether an impressive three-week wonder deserves to be a boyfriend or not.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the entire call on Becoming Exclusive.

And sit tight for next week’s material, where we take the next logical step and discover if your guy is truly Boyfriend Material.



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Being Selective

08/20/2015

Thanks, as always, for your participation in last night’s call. I felt your questions were particularly good last night, and I really appreciated your thoughtful engagement with this week’s material.

And because of the technical glitch that shuffled everyone in their breakout rooms, we got to spend an extra twenty minutes on Q&A, which is never a bad thing.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to your Being Selective Inner Circle Call.

Don’t forget that next week is the last week of the Dating Module and marks our halfway point through the course. You’re doing great and I am excited to teach you everything you need to know about men and relationships by the end of Love U.



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Sex

08/13/2015

Maybe it was just the nature of the subject, but I really wanted to take the time to answer EVERY SINGLE QUESTION you had about sex this week.

And while no one is going to mistake me for Dr. Ruth, I do hope you see some value in learning what guys think about sex directly from the horse’s mouth.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to this fun Inner Circle call where we talk about sexclusivity, rounding the bases, pubic hair and porn. Also. feel free to download a copy of Lying by Sam Harris below.

Next video content comes out on Sunday so stay tuned…


Lying by Sam Harris



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Staying Cool

08/06/2015

As always, thanks for your participation during last night’s Inner Circle coaching call. Not only were there no technical glitches, but we got to go deep on handful of questions, particularly about anxious and avoidant attachment styles.

In addition, we got to hear from some Love U members who are having stunning success with confidence and staying cool; just more reinforcement that you’ve gotta keep working the system to see results.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the Inner Circle call on Staying Cool.

And stay tuned next week for a juicy discussion on Sex. How dirty will it get? Tune in on Sunday.



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Courtship

07/30/2015

We ran a little long last night, but that’s what happens when you have topic with as many variables as Courtship. Those first six weeks of dating are crucial, and I hope I gave you a lot of food for thought as to how to make better decisions before you become a couple.

A number of women had questions about how to apply “mirroring,” especially as it pertains to less aggressive men, and I think you’ll find that portion of the Q&A extremely useful.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the Inner Circle call on Courtship.

Next week, we’re on to the Dating module, so strap yourself in. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts in the Love U Community.



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First Dates

07/23/2015

If you didn’t make it to last night’s live event, you missed a REALLY fun call. Not at all surprising, given the subject: First Dates.

Somehow the mood of the call seemed to mirror the spirit that I’m encouraging you to bring to your first dates – open, warm, positive, trusting, vulnerable, fun. It seems a number of Love U members simultaneously recalled that the world feels like a better place when you treat it as your playground than if you treat it with fear and dread.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to last night’s Inner Circle call.

And stay tuned for the final week of Module 2: Courtship, coming up on Sunday. As always, I’m pleased to be at your service and look forward to talking to you next week.



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Online Dating

07/16/2015

Thanks, as always for your contributions on last night’s Inner Circle call. Because we ran into a little snag with the breakout rooms at the beginning, I tried to give you even more coaching time and probably took a full hour of questions from the folks on the call.

We covered photos, texting, the 2/2/2 Rule, lying about your age, Opinion Openers and so much more.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

You’ll get access to another pet topic of mine on Sunday: First Dates. If you master this online dating content, I promise, there will be a LOT of them in your future.



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Flirting

07/09/2015

We were in the zone last night, weren’t we? What a fun session on a fun topic. Lots of wonderful wins and takeaways – what to wear, how to listen, how to talk, and, of course, how to understand men.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full call and don’t forget to share your aha moments right here in the Love U Community.

Next week, you’re getting 90 minutes of Online Dating goodness, so strap yourself in. This plane is about to take off…



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Meeting Men

07/02/2015

Last night, we both went out of our comfort zones. I attempted to conduct the call by myself (and was mercifully bailed out by my team). And you decided to push yourself outside your comfort zone and proactively meet men.

I heard success stories from online dating, Meetup, and smiling at strangers and I’m confident that the more you remain open to love wherever you go, the more likely you will find it quickly.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full call and don’t forget to share your takeaways in the Love U Community.

Next week, we’re tackling Flirting, so we both have a lot to look forward to.



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Take Action

06/25/2015

I know I’m biased, but I think these calls are just getting better and better. The ladies of Love U brought their A-Game last night and did a great job of sharing where they feel stopped in taking action – and were super receptive to my answers. 

In other words, I got a lot of feel good vibes from you, which hopefully means that you’re starting to internalize the Confidence material from this month.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Listen below to hear how your Love U colleagues are taking one step at a time on a path to inevitable romantic success.

And click here to share what YOU got out of the call.

Congrats on a great first month. Onwards and upwards!



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Confidence

06/18/2015

As I reiterated on last night’s coaching call, confidence is the single greatest asset you have when it comes to dating. Without it, you accept unacceptable behavior, waste time in dead-end relationships and feel pessimistic about your chances in love. With it, men will be attracted to you, respect you and want to make you happy. 

It seems that I’m incapable of doing a one-hour call, so be sure to listen below to 90 minutes of women brimming with confidence and optimism, and don’t forget to check out what big wins your Love U colleagues had around confidence this week.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Stay tuned for another email from me on Sunday with your Take Action videos, which wrap up your first month in Love U. 

Very excited. Very proud. Very optimistic. You’re on your way!



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Why Bother Syndrome

06/11/2015

That was a marathon call last night, and I appreciate everybody who stuck around for the whole thing. Love U is only in its second week and I’m still tinkering with the right formula for these calls.

It seems that the 15 minute breakout at the end was a success, and I get the sense that people liked the extended coaching as well.  

On the call, we had lots of women who were able to turn a lifetime of negative beliefs into a more positive outlook. I hope you were as inspired as I was.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen and don’t forget to share your takeaways in the Community.

Keep your eyes peeled for the Confidence videos coming at you on Sunday.

P.S. I’m going to be at a friend’s wedding this weekend, but I will be back on Monday to catch up with you in the Community.

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Past Baggage

06/04/2015

Thanks so much for your participation in last night’s call. Nearly 1/3 of all the members of Love U were in attendance – and given that we have people from all around the world, I would say that was quite a success.

It seems our experiment with the new teleconference software was a big hit. Women really seemed to like the breakout rooms, sharing and making new friends, so we’re going to keep it moving forward, and are open to your suggestions for improvement.

Most importantly, I think we accomplished what we set out to do together – to get clarity on this week’s Past Baggage videos and exercise, to celebrate our successes, and to build a greater sense of Community as we go through Love U together.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the call – and if you are curious what those breakout sessions are like, I’ve got great news for you: there’s another call at the same time next week!

Have a great weekend.



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