Compromise has gotten a bad rap, but it shouldn’t. Compromise doesn’t mean settling. It doesn’t mean putting up with unacceptable behavior. It doesn’t mean marrying a man you’re not attracted to, whose company you don’t enjoy. Smart compromises – like those you make for your job or your home or your family – are ones that ultimately make you happy. But when the stakes are high and you don’t trust your own judgment, how do you know what you should and should not compromise on in your relationship?