2016 Love U Coaching Calls

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2016 Coaching Call Information

These calls were recorded in 2016 with previous participants in Love U. The information and topics covered are relevant to many different situations. They are best listened to after you have completed the videos for the week related to the call.

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Wants Vs. Needs

12/15/2016

I’m not sure what to say. While we covered some really important material last night (your Husband Picker exercise!), the thing that stood out the most about our last Inner Circle call was this:

You loved Love U.

I have never before experienced such a sincere outpouring of praise and emotional generosity – and I am touched by how much this program has meant to you.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

If you have not listened to these weekly coaching sessions, do yourself a favor: click the link below and block out two hours, take notes and bring a box of tissues. It’s so rare to have a purely authentic moment with no pretense – just a sincere expression of love.

I’m so grateful to have led you through this course and I sincerely hope that you continue with me and Love U as long as it keeps you strong, connected and motivated.


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Breaking Up

12/12/2016

Thank you so much for joining me on last night’s Inner Circle call.

Although the topic was Breaking Up and this was our second-to-last coaching session, I sincerely hope that this is not the end of our relationship. If our long, interesting dialogue was any indication, I feel like this is exactly where things begin to take off for you.

See, one of the tricky things about self-help is that no matter how much you grow, the world around you doesn’t change. Match is still Match, men are still men, and so on. That’s why I feel so strongly about surrounding myself by other people who get it and challenge me to become a better coach. That’s what happens whenever we’re on the phone, and I want to thank you for that.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to last night’s thought-provoking take on Breaking Up.

Now enjoy your weekend and take the time to appreciate what you’ve accomplished so far.

You deserve it!


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Commitment

12/01/2016

Well, that was lovely! By talking about Commitment – the kind of commitment that leads to marriage – we opened up the doors to all sorts of interesting insights. The most interesting one was how many women in Love U aren’t sold on committing to the men in their lives – a wonderful observation that should help you understand and be more sympathetic to men in the exact same situation.

People aren’t “bad” for not knowing if they want to lock in one person for life; they’re actually pretty prudent and often want to get more clarity. Which is why Love U has two valuable pieces of advice:

1. Choosing a boyfriend is DIFFERENT than choosing a husband. Don’t panic about being exclusive with one guy. You have two years to figure out if you’re truly compatible.

2. You’re not always going to know if a guy is right for you, but you will know if a guy is wrong for you. Husbands don’t come gift wrapped with a bow on their heads. They are built with consistent good treatment and the feeling of joy and comfort over time.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to this week’s call on Commitment.

And tomorrow, you’re going to get access to the videos on Breaking Up – a skill that’s very valuable if you don’t want to waste years on the wrong men.


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Being a Great Girlfriend

11/17/2016

Thanks so much for your participation in last night’s Love U Inner Circle call on Being a Great Girlfriend.

This is a very special topic for me – one that was finely honed by 300 dates over 10 years, not to mention my 8 year marriage. It was wonderful to see so many women take to this stuff, and to see that you’re ALREADY great girlfriend material. All you have to do is relax and trust that you’ve got a good guy on your hands.

This is a coaching session you don’t want to miss, so please click below to listen.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

For those who were not on the live call, there are no new Love U videos this week. The next content on Commitment will be delivered on the Saturday after Thanksgiving.

In the meantime, enjoy your families, catch up with missed videos and exercises, and I look forward to our next call on December 1st.


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Compatibility

11/10/2016

Last night, we heard a common theme:

Love U is sinking in – but you still struggle with the concept of uncertainty. A half-dozen women all offered some version of this same refrain: after this week, you have a greater understanding of compatibility, but you still just want to know RIGHT NOW if you’re compatible.

Alas, that’s not how this works. You’re trusting your your character judgment, and waiting for your love story to unfold, rather than trying to fast forward to the end of the movie to see if there’s a happy ending.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to Compatibility.

You can’t life your life in fear of the worst. All you can do is be the best version of yourself and attract the best men to you. The rest, you will successfully navigate on your own.

All of this is the perfect lead-in to next week’s videos on Being a Great Girlfriend, so be sure to log in this weekend and write down your questions about the videos that had the greatest impact on you.


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Jealousy and Cheating

11/03/2016

Thanks, as always, for your attendance and participation in last night’s Inner Circle call about Jealousy and Cheating.

There were some great questions, and I hope I answered them as transparently as I could. Furthermore, I hope I illustrated to you why the “full trust/full acceptance” model that my wife and I employ is the one that is the least likely to lead to relationship tension or lying down the road. It’s not always easy to get there, but it does have great rewards if you do.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the call in its entirety, and stay tuned the upcoming videos on Compatibility. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts.


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Should I Stay Or Go?

10/27/2016

Great positive reaction to last night’s call! I enjoyed the subtleties of your questions and hope that I gave you greater clarity about when you should stay and when you should exit a relationship. I don’t take breaking up lightly, but I find it to be a far superior solution than trying to force your foot in the proverbial shoe, even when it’s obvious that it doesn’t fit.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to Should I Stay or Go.

And don’t forget to tune in for next week’s videos about Jealousy and Cheating, which I’m confident will give you something to think about before our next Inner Circle session.


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How to Talk with Men

10/20/2016

As always, I appreciate you bringing your A-Game to each week’s Inner Circle Call. Tonight’s session on How to Talk with Men is a favorite subject of mine – and a particularly sensitive and rich topic as well. You can see how this dynamic played out on the phone, and why it’s essential to approach all communication as problem solving instead of finger pointing. It was heartwarming to hear how many Love U members are really starting to “get it” when it comes to choosing kinder men and seeing things from their point of view.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full call on How to Talk with Men.

And don’t forget to join me next week for an in-your-face look at “Should I Stay or Go?” These are the most critical questions you face in a relationship and I’m giving you a simple paradigm to evaluate if your boyfriend makes the cut.


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Chemistry

10/13/2016

Thank you so much for your participation in last night’s Inner Circle call on Chemistry. As predicted, there were a LOT of questions and (hopefully) some thoughtful, nuanced answers about how to create a long-lasting partnership that has a healthy measure of chemistry AND compatibility.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Listen to the magic here and stay tuned for next week’s videos where I teach you how to make men listen to you, respect you, and do what you want.


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Understanding Men

10/06/2016

What a wonderful call! This is – not surprisingly – one of my favorite topics, because, as the only man in Love U, I hope I can wield a little extra authority on the subject. But really, what I enjoyed was your participation. Lots of juicy questions explaining how men do what they want and why it’s important to sit back and observe their behavior and attempt to understand them, instead of judging.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full Inner Circle call on Understanding Men.

And stay tuned for my email on Saturday, giving you access to the all-important Love U unit on Chemistry. Really interesting stuff.

As always, I love you and appreciate you and can’t wait to hear your aha moments in the Community.


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Alpha Males VS. Beta Males

09/29/2016

There were a lot of questions about how to apply this Alpha/Beta knowledge to your love life and my answer was consistent: you will figure out compatibility when you’re in an easy relationship. These ideas and tests are supposed to be data points and guidelines for you as you navigate the dating landscape, not be-all, end-all answers to the life long test known as “Where is my husband?”

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

You’re now ready for the most challenging week yet: Understanding Men, which you should have received on Saturday morning.

Can’t wait to see you again on Thursday night.


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Masculine & Feminine Energy

09/22/2016

Dare I say that last night’s Inner Circle call was the best one yet?

From the positive energy in the room, it sure felt like it from here. We had some really interesting conversation surrounding masculine and feminine energy, most of which settled upon finding a relationship that feels good. In other words, yes, you have to compromise a little bit, but, for the most part, you shouldn’t have to think too much about your own energy when you’re with the right partner.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to take a listen and thanks again for contributing to some of the most thoughtful coaching dialogue I’ve ever been a part of. It’s a joy to be your host on this journey.


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Boyfriend Material

09/16/2016

Thanks for joining me on last night’s Inner Circle call. We had great turnout and participation, and I was particularly delighted how many common themes were echoed – particularly about what you should feel when you have a boyfriend. It’s not magic or butterflies: it’s the sense that you can be yourself and say anything and he will still accept you. And it’s certainly not “settling.”

Moderation was another recurring theme – not seeing things in terms of black and white. It’s a guiding principle of Love U, one which will serve you well as you assess whether the guy you’re seeing is truly boyfriend-worthy, and, later, husband-worthy.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to take a listen to the call.

And stay tuned for next week’s juicy content on Masculine and Feminine Energy.


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Becoming Exclusive

09/08/2016

Congratulations! Just like that, you have completed the first three months of Love U and might as well be a dating expert yourself!

If last night’s call is any indication, your Love U mojo is working wonders. I could feel the shift in the group as we went deeper on the idea of trust and faith – in both men and the dating process.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the entire call on Becoming Exclusive.

And sit tight for next week’s material, where we take the next logical step and discover if your guy is truly Boyfriend Material.


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Being Selective

09/01/2016

Thanks, as always, for your participation in last night’s call. I felt your questions were particularly good last night, and I really appreciated your thoughtful engagement with this week’s material. Sorry that you heard my “angry” voice; that was me telling the kids to get out of earshot while we were recording.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to your Being Selective Inner Circle Call.

Don’t forget that next week is the last week of the Dating Module and marks our halfway point through the course. You’re doing great and I am excited to teach you everything you need to know about men and relationships by the end of Love U.


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Sex

08/25/2016

Maybe it was just the nature of the subject, but I really wanted to take the time to answer EVERY SINGLE QUESTION you had about sex this week.

And while no one is going to mistake me for Dr. Ruth, I do hope you see some value in learning what guys think about sex. Sorry for the tech glitches, sorry for the profanity, but I was excited to finally gather all my thoughts for you on this all-important topic.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to this fun Inner Circle call where we talk about sexclusivity, rounding the bases, and sexting.

Next video content comes out on Sunday so stay tuned…


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Staying Cool

08/22/2016

As always, thanks for your participation during last night’s Inner Circle coaching call. We got to go deep on handful of questions, particularly about anxious and avoidant attachment styles.

In addition, we got to hear from some Love U members who are having stunning success with confidence and staying cool; just more reinforcement that you’ve gotta keep working the system to see results. Great dates and boyfriends abound!

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the Inner Circle call on Staying Cool.

And stay tuned for this Thursday’s juicy Inner Circle discussion on Sex. How dirty will it get? That’s up to you. 🙂


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Courtship

08/12/2016

Interesting call last night, but that’s what happens when you have topic with as many variables as Courtship. Those first six weeks of dating are crucial, and I hope I gave you a lot of food for thought as to how to make better decisions before you become a couple.

A few women had questions about how to apply “mirroring,” especially as it pertains to less aggressive men, and I think you’ll find that portion of the Q&A extremely useful.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the Inner Circle call on Courtship.

Next week, we’re on to the Dating module, so strap yourself in. Can’t wait to hear your thoughts in the Love U Community.


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First Dates

08/04/2016

If you didn’t make it to last night’s live event, you missed a REALLY fun call. Not at all surprising, given the subject: First Dates.

Somehow the mood of the call seemed to mirror the spirit that I’m encouraging you to bring to your first dates – open, warm, positive, trusting, vulnerable, fun. It seems a number of Love U members simultaneously recalled that the world feels like a better place when you treat it as your playground than if you treat it with fear and dread.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to last night’s Inner Circle call. And stay tuned for the final week of Module 2: Courtship, coming up on Saturday.

As always, I’m pleased to be at your service and look forward to talking to you next week.


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Online Dating

07/28/2016

Thanks, as always for your contributions on last night’s Inner Circle call. Because we ran into a little snag with the breakout rooms at the beginning, I tried to give you even more coaching time and probably took a full hour of questions from the folks on the call.

We covered photos, texting, the 2/2/2 Rule, lying about your age, Opinion Openers and so much more.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

You’ll get access to another pet topic of mine on Saturday: First Dates. If you master this online dating content, I promise, there will be a LOT of them in your future.


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Flirting

07/21/2016

We were in the zone last night, weren’t we? What a fun session on a fun topic. I hope you got the big takeaway that flirting isn’t really about him; it’s about YOU.

Loving yourself, believing in yourself, and, by sheer force of confidence – making every man fall for you, too.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full call and don’t forget to share your aha moments right here in the Love U Community.

Next week, you’re getting 90 minutes of Online Dating goodness, so strap yourself in. This plane is about to take off…


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Meeting Men

07/14/2016

Last night, we both went out of our comfort zones. I let go of control and answered questions that were a little off-topic 🙂 And you decided to push yourself outside your comfort zone and proactively meet men.

I heard success stories from online dating, happy hours, and smiling at strangers and I’m confident that the more you remain open to love wherever you go, the more likely you will find it quickly.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the full call and don’t forget to share your takeaways in the Love U Community.

Next week, we’re tackling Flirting, so we both have a lot to look forward to.


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Take Action

07/08/2016

I know I’m biased, but I think these calls are just getting better and better. The ladies of Love U brought their A-Game last night and did a great job of sharing where they feel stopped in taking action – and were super receptive to my answers. 

In other words, I got a lot of feel good vibes from you, which hopefully means that you’re starting to internalize the Confidence material from this month.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Listen below to hear how your Love U colleagues are taking one step at a time on a path to inevitable romantic success.

And click here to share what YOU got out of the call.

Congrats on a great first month. Onwards and upwards!


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Confidence

06/30/2016

As I reiterated on last night’s coaching call, confidence is the single greatest asset you have when it comes to dating. Without it, you accept unacceptable behavior, waste time in dead-end relationships and feel pessimistic about your chances in love. With it, men will be attracted to you, respect you and want to make you happy. 

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

It seems that I’m incapable of doing a one-hour call, so be sure to click below to listen to 90 minutes of women brimming with confidence and optimism, and don’t forget to check out what big wins your Love U colleagues had around confidence this week.

Stay tuned for another email from me on Saturday with your Take Action videos, which wrap up your first month in Love U. 

Very excited. Very proud. Very optimistic. You’re on your way!


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Why Bother Syndrome

06/23/2016

That was another fun call last night, and I appreciate everybody who stuck around for the whole thing. Lots of women who participated, worked through their struggles, and found commonality over the struggle to believe in love. I was so proud that many of you are showing signs of turning a lifetime of negative beliefs into a more positive outlook. I hope you were as inspired as I was.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Keep your eyes peeled for the Confidence videos coming at you tomorrow.

Can’t wait for our next meeting on Thursday night!


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Past Baggage

06/16/2016

Thanks so much for your participation in last night’s call. Nearly 1/3 of all the members of Love U were in attendance – and given that we have people from all around the world, I would say that was quite a success.

It was a really enthusiastic group. Lots of weekly wins, hand raising, vulnerable questions, and positive energy. Plus, you really seemed to like sharing and making new friends in the breakout rooms, and I look forward to next week, when I can introduce you to more Love U colleagues.

Most importantly, I think we accomplished what we set out to do together – to get clarity on this week’s Past Baggage videos, to celebrate our successes, and to build a greater sense of Community as we go through Love U together.

Before you download this week’s Inner Circle call, click below to tell me what you thought of this week’s videos and exercise.

Click below to listen to the call – and if you are curious what those breakout sessions are like, I’ve got great news: there’s another call at the same time next week!

Have a great weekend.


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